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Elisha F. Weinberg ~ (206)498.2838

That’s right. I said it. It’s a myth. You don’t need crazy plastic mouth thingys. You don’t need surgery.

Acupuncture + Cranial Sacral = Happy, Healthy Jaw.

And can I just say…that it’s one of my most favorite things to treat! Of course it was more fun back when I used latex gloves and I got that great Snap! sound when I gloved up….

But all the same…we are all called to different things, and this month I am called to extoll the virtues of a pain-free jaw.

You can smile, eat, chew gum and suck on virtually anything without the annoyance of pain. That is a big check in my book.

Don’t believe me? Well…I hazard to say, it’s worth one appointment to see if I’m telling the truth. Trust me, you won’t be disappointed!

See you soon….

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It’s near…I can feel it.  Can you?

We are shaking out our bunny tails and stepping out of the deep inner confines of the rabbit.  Letting loose the deep introspection of the past year.

I don’t know about you…but I’m ready for something a little bit different then the non-stop inner work that just kept coming at me last year!

And I can feel the shift.  I can feel the momentum building as we prepare to take flight.  I do have to fight my inner instincts to ground and stand still and process….because I can tell this year is about letting go and seeing how much air i can get!

If you are reading this and haven’t been in for a treatment lately…there is a shift that has occured over the last moon cycle.  It is a transition from grounding into the earth and the planet, to grounding from our heart center…it’s very very different.

Those who have recently felt like they just had a huge scare, or like things are moving faster then they feel comfortable with might want to consider coming in for a balancing treatment that energetically expands your heart chakra and re-seats it as your center of grounding.

That’s a lot of words that really mean…if things feel like they are moving a bit fast, or that you can’t find your rhythm….I can help.

Otherwise, for those who are integrating properly….my suggestion is to hang on the for the ride!  It’s going to be a lot of fun…if you let it!

 

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So many charts left un-filed, and papers unsorted…that can’t be the right way to end the new year.  I don’t know about you, but time seems to be speeding up so quickly that a month is over before it’s really even sunk in and marinated at all.

Even this post is scattered, like I want to have pearls of wisdom to impart here before we switch writing 11 and move to 12.  But the truth is that it all seems so arbitrary.  Solstice is past…and this moment at midnight on december 31st seems rather unimportant in the grand scheme of things…except that  I will invariably write the wrong year on my checks and chartnotes for the next few months.

So why am I blogging today then?  I guess because I’m not the only one feeling this way.  This way that life has a mind of it’s own and I’m just along for the ride.  And sometimes I feel like I have had my eyes closed for a really long time, but it’s only been a moment.  A breath.

So from all this grounded confusion I do want to wish each and every one of you an amazing New Year…whenever it arguably began… I hope you spend it doing things you love, with people you admire, in surroundings that nourish you.

I hope that when you look back at this past calendar year you can see your achievements with clarity and your areas of growth with compassion.

I hope you have nurtured your relationships and let go of those that no longer serve you.

I hope that your health has fed you and you feel at peace in your body.

I hope that you have kind goals for yourself and this planet and the connections between us all.

And perhaps most importantly, I hope this year more than all other years you have learned to love yourself truly and completely.  For only when we find that space in ourselves can we share and receive it from others.

So with that I offer my deepest thanks and gratitude to everyone who touched my heart and soul, who challenged me and supported me, and as a beautiful native prayer goes…to the great spirit of us all.

Namaste.

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Hello there lovely bloggers.  I wanted to write a little about communication…since I seem to be having a lot of patients suffering from woes due to not “being heard.”  And I am in a new relationship where we are delicately playing with the boundaries of how to communicate with each other.  In other words…it’s everywhere…and I seem to have some good experiences to share, and thought they might be of value.

Simple Effective Communication Tips:

1)  Before speaking to someone who you think doesn’t listen to you, touch them…either on the hand, arm, shoulder, or leg and ask them first, “Can I ask you a question?” or “Can I talk with you about something?”  If you do this, they will be able to respond with a clear answer and will be ready to hear what you are going to say.

2) If you are in relationship with someone who needs to think about what they say, honor that.  Instead of assuming you are being ignored, ask them something like “are you thinking about what I just asked you?” Then you will know what is going on inside their head, instead of assuming.

3) If you notice that a conversation is going the wrong way, and by that I mean there is frustration creeping in, you are allowed to acknowledge that and table the conversation for another time, perhaps after a walk or a cup of tea or even better…a good joke.  For instance, after a long drive home from vacation, my partner asked me a question that is a hot button for me.  I noticed my answer was not super clear and I said to him, “Can we talk about this after a good nights sleep?”  He agreed, problem averted.

There are many more tips, but I think this is a good start.  The key to excellent communication isn’t always about how you word things, sometimes it’s about acknowledging it’s not actually a good time to talk.  Sometimes it’s about making sure you aren’t making up how someone feels.

Please feel free to add any comments or suggestions for clear communication if this sparks some need for you to share those.

In hopes for great, open, healthy communication this holiday season!

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We Made It!

So here we are. One moment lighter. One step into our newest creations! I don’t know about you, but last night I sat down with a strong cup of Chamomile Tea and my moon journal and I got to some serious manifesting.

More than just making sure I told the cosmos about my commitment to run the half marathon this year, or do yoga every morning…I dug down deep into all the neglected places that lie in shadow and really began to weave a list that makes my soul feel lighter.

And today…I’m happy to say I started the day with yoga :)

So in case you didn’t take time yesterday to take stock of life and look into the dark places to see where you could shine some light…there’s always time. And there’s no time like the present.

And in case you need a few pointers…the list should include parts of you from body, mind, and soul. Everything should also be phrased in the positive, and if possible as if it’s already happening. And I find it best to re-read the completed list for a few days to make sure I really listened to myself.

Happy Journaling. And Happy Solstice.

 

Seasonal Attunement Time Y’all!

Those who have been with me for a while know that more than anything I believe wholeheartedly in Seasonal Attunements.

What does this mean?  It means that energetically there is a huge change as we move in and out of seasons…for instance…Solstice is tomorrow…it is the deepest part of night, the most profound time of our yin energy.  It’s a time to slow down and breathe.  It’s a time to dive into inner reflection.  It’s a time for meditation and stillness.

I mean…what are the bears doing?  I know…I sorta wish I could sleep for the winter too…but if we can’t do that…we CAN give ourselves a needed boost and allow our energies to be more aligned with the energy of the season.  That feeling of rushing and hurrying and not getting enough done is left over from the unbalanced energies of the summer moving into fall.  It’s time to bring yourself into the here and now!

Each season I have a new treatment that is specially formulated for the current energies.  This transition is one of my favorites.  It’s when I allow myself the joy of slowing down, without the mind trip that I’m not getting enough done.  This treatment is about grounding our body to the earth, and opening our crown up to the divine for the beginning of inspiration.

This treatment is espeically special (can I put those words together?) because the treatment gets two extras…One…you get the most sacred scent Frankinsense on your feet to pull all that inspration deep into your body to mix with your essense and feul the next few months of pondering and growing and changing before spring.  And two…you ground the effects of the treatment by going directly into the Infra-red sauna after your treatment…for free.

I know…I’m so generous…but it’s just too good not to share this holiday season!

So that is that.  Book a session and come in by January 15 for your amazing seasonal attunement, frankincense ritual and infrared sauna…you will be amazed how incredible you feel!

And if I don’t see you…beautiful, bountiful wishes for an amazing Solstice season and a very very very happy new year!

 

Deep Change is Rising…can you feel it?

This is going to be one hell of a Full Moon. I can feel it in my body. And I’m not sleeping (which usually only happens ON the full moon and it’s still 3 days away.) And I’m making such huge and deep connections to all that I do. Deep ancestral connections. Deep life long lessons that have eluded me and just in my meditation this morning were as clear as a bell….and there it is. The opportunity for transformation. The opportunity to move into a different way of being.

I’m not an astrologer…but I have a feeling that whatever energies are stirring are bringing with them deep insight into how to change our thinking, our lives, our being, our connection, our grounding….

And my thought is to sit, and open and feel and connect and follow the thoughts and insights until you feel that stir of unrestrained ah-ha and in that moment…take a breath and bask in the knowingness that you are right where you are supposed to be.

So with that I wish you early Full Moon wishes…and a quick note…if you have sacred crystals and stones in your home or office, this would be a GREAT month to get those out for a moon bath! Friday night is the night! They will recharge and get cleaned and be able to better serve your needs in the coming month!

Namaste!

 

The PERFECT mantra for 11/11/11

No matter how you look at it, time is moving.  Just thought I would point that out.

I am a lover of numerology.  I read numbers into everything and relate it back to tarot…it started as a game and over the years has become a way of life.  When I add the numbers for 11/11/11 I get 6…and in tarot, 6 is the lovers card.  It’s tremendously grounded, supported, infinite love.  It’s love of self, love of those in your life, and love for all beings.

So on a day when everything adds up so perfectly to love, the ideal meditation is the Moola Mantra.  Whenever I finish singing a round of this, or singing with Deva Premal (well, she’s on CD) I feel so peaceful and full of boundless love.  Of course, this is my sauna CD so I’m dripping with sweat and detoxing like crazy…but the sentiment is the same.

If you are looking for a little ritual on this just past full moon crazy special day (Not to mention it’s my nephews second sweet birthday) then hunker down for a few moments, find a perfect seat, the most natural of breaths, and open your heart and your throat, and get to singing.  Know you are connecting in with millions around the world who are singing with you.  Move as your body moves you.  Open your heart even further as the vibration urges you to…and sing…to love.

om satchitananda parabramha

puroshothama paramatma

shri bhagvati sametha

shri bhagavate namaha

hari om tat sat

Namaste.

 

Breathing Techniques to make your Acupuncture Treatment work better! Scout’s Honor!

If you have come for treatment at the Ayaffa Healing Space you have been given many breathing techniques to help accelerate and deepen your session. Some of them are whispered in my ear by your guides. Some are my favorites from yogic traditions. Some are excellent Taoist meditations. And some have been created over the years by me while I’m sitting in my practice.

Since not everyone on the great wide inter-web can come in for sessions, I thought I might post my favorites that you can bring to your own healing sessions. Yes, your welcome.

Favorite Breathing Meditation #1 :  Micro Cosmic Orbit.

This mediation is my definition of yummy.  I do this in the car.  In line at the store.  When I need to calm my mind (which is quite often.)  I will add some links, there is a lot written on this…and you can peruse at your leisure.  But here is a photo so you can see what I’m writing.

First sit with your feet flat on the ground.  Be comfortable…that’s very important.  I clearly have patients lying down to this, but either way works.  Then begin your breath at your perineum, or the lowest part of your body.  Your inhale moves up your spine to the top of your head.  Your exhale moves from the very top of your head back down to your perineum.

You are essentially tracing your midline of the trunk of your body with your breath.  I could write as much about this as this guy, but I will keep this blog kinda simple and say two things.

1) You are massaging and balancing all of you major chakras with this breath.  You are using the force of yang rising (your masculine, forceful energy)  to balance the receptive elements of your chakras.  And you are using the descending yin energy (feminine, nurturing energy) of your body to balance the more outgoing, out pouring elements of your chakras.  (My next blog will be about the chakras…so hold on tight.)  So it’s this perfect yin/yang balance meditation.

2) You are opening two of the Chinese energetic systems in your body:  The Du or governing vessel.  And the Ren or Conception vessel.  For more on that, do see this guy’s post…no sense in reinventing the wheel here :)

The trick with this meditation, as with all meditations, is that once we settle in and get familiar with the breath and visual of our energy rising and falling and balancing, it’s easy to let the mind wander.

See if for five or ten or even 20 minutes you can just “try” to notice when you are not present in this wheel and exhale (i exhale strongly to get my attention) and then I usually thank the thought or ask it to come back in 20 minutes.  When that doesn’t work I quickly follow the thought through, thank it for it’s persistence and then exhale and begin from the beginning of the breath again.

So…I have lots more to say about this..since it’s my favorite, but let’s move on to #2.

#2  Yogic Tri-Doshic Breath

Ok.  I have learned this many different ways from my many different teachers, so I will write the version I like the most…you are of course welcome to play and see which direction of flow suits you the best.  That is the joy of free will!

So this breath works either sitting in a chair, feet flat on the ground.  Or laying on your back, knees bent…feet a little wider than your hips with the knees falling toward the center….resting on each other to protect the back.  Or standing in a mountain pose, feet strong, arms either to your side or resting on your hara (under your navel).

Here’s my favorite version:  Inhale into your low belly, fill it up as much as you can.  Continue in the same breath to fill your middle abdomen breathing into your side ribs.  Continue the same breath up into your lugs and upper chest, well under the collar bones and hold.  Then exhale the same way:  Either exhale low belly, mid belly, upper chest.  Or my favorite is exhale upper chest and lungs, then side ribs and middle belly, then low belly.  My stomach is always totally flat at the end of the exhale.

I just did a few rounds.  It is so exhilarating!  Try and see.  Try to slow your breath down.  Try to speed your breath up.  See how that makes it different.

3.  I like to call this breath:  A slice of heaven.  You know you want to know more…am I right?

This breath is a bunch of visualizations.  I hope it makes sense because I don’t have a picture of it.  Laying on your back your first inhale brings in all the goodness of the heavens from above you.  You breathe this breath to its maximum inhalation and then exhale through your body under the table into the earth. Imagine the earth taking anything you no longer need from you. (This can be thoughts, emotions, pain, blocked energy.)

Your next inhale brings all that good earth energy into your body for a full inhale and then exhales any remaining trapped energy up towards the heaven to turn back into light.

Your next inhale breathes breath from pure light into your crown (the top of your head) and comes down through your body to your feet…filling you with beautiful angelic light.  Your inhale brings light all the way down to your feet, and then your exhale comes out through the soles of your feet…allowing any stagnant energy to be recycled in the earth.

Your next inhale brings all the wonderful grounding energy of earth into the soles of your feet and you can inhale that as far into you as it wants to go.  I generally get up to my hips and it doesn’t want to go any further.  I’m not sure I would go past my belly button…since you are getting close to the pivot of the heart chakra…and that doesn’t need to be grounded with earth energy…but more of that in the next post.

So you have a four directional breath that you can play with in any order.  If one direction feels really good I might stay there for a while before going onto others, but I make sure to hit each directions a few times before I move onto another breath meditation.

So…those a few of my all time favorites…and I hope you find that they help deepen the results of your treatments.  They of course are excellent to use for meditation without a treatment as well.

Many people will have you believe that you need to find a place of “no mind” when you meditate…and that is great after a lifetime of meditation.  But some of us have very active minds and active lives.  And finding 20 minutes to sit and breath and kind of put our minds on a little mouse wheel makes a huge difference in our grounding and the rest of our day.  The way I see it…if for a few minutes I can get my mind and my minds mind…and that minds mind to all line up in a single file and breathe and be at the same time…I have just won a serious miracle!

Happy grounded, amazing, deep healing treatment to you!  And happy meditative breath!

 

 

Exactly What is this Qi everyone is talking about?

I know you expect me to give you an answer…I mean, I posed the question right? And I’m supposed to be some sort of authority on Chinese Medicine and words like Qi….right?
Well…I can tell you what I have learned, what I have experienced, and what after all these years I think I know.

Qi or Chi is most simply put:  Our energy.  In ayurveda they use the word Prana (not to be confused with the clothing line :) (I really do love that clothing line though.)

Back to business…Qi can be broken down for this particular blog into three categories:  How it feels in your body, How to get more, and How to move it.

Lets start with how it feels in your body.

I don’t know if I understood what Qi was until my first acupuncture appointment.  My healer put a needle in and I felt something.  I didn’t know what, it didn’t have words that I knew before…but something was happening.  What I was feeling was my body’s sacred energy.  My body’s energetic pathways being communicated to on a very different level than ever before.

How does that happen?  I can only speak for my practice, because I understand what I’m doing.  Before I insert a needle I have a specific point in mind.  I know what I want this point to do:  whether it’s to build, or move, or tonify, perhaps it’s an emotion I’m trying to shift, or to open the spirit gates, regardless of what it is, that’s what I’m thinking as I’m holding this point.  You could say I’m programming it.

Then I insert the needle.  And as I’m doing this, my intention is now shifting into your body.  Into that specific point that now has a job to do.  My intention begins a healing response that your body carries out…and that feeling, that feeling that can’t be defined…that’s your qi response.  That’s your body shifting, healing, changing, growing, becoming alive in a way it wasn’t a moment ago.

Now, often you feel this sensation traveling along the channel that belongs to the point I selected. That makes sense, right?  Energy moving up and down the channels which are becoming unblocked, or filled up…whatever the intention is.

But what about when I put a needle in your arm and you feel it on your opposite foot in an old injury that’s not anywhere near the channel I was needling?  Well…it would be nice to call this magic…but I wouldn’t do that in a serious blog like this.  What I can say is that the body is magical.  It has an inherent sense of wellness.  A knowingness of how to create balance and wellness.  And if you put it in a spot of harmony, it will find a way to shift.

Are you more or less confused?  I’m going to assume that made sense and move on to number 2.

How do you get more qi?

Well…you really ask tough, open ended questions don’t you?  OK, let’s see.  There are numerous ways to get more Qi, and I’m assuming here you mean “Energy.”  Acupuncture is one of the greatest ways for sure.  There are multiple ways that I can assess why your Qi is out of balance and correct that with Essential Oils (That’s Qi from plants…oh it’s good stuff) or hands on energy medicine (that’s qi from the cosmos…also amazing stuff) or from needles (really superior stuff…especially in combo with the others.)

Let’s stick with needles.  Depending on which channel is “blocked” I can insert needles at just the right spot…and bing-ba-da-bing…energy.  That quickly.  It’s really good stuff.

Let’s take an essential oil.  For instance Melissa.  Drop one tiny drop in your palm, rub them together, put them under your nose and inhale.  See how many seconds till you feel like you just had a huge cup of coffee…without the nasty side effects.

Let’s talk food therapy:  A simple jook for your constitution in the morning…and you will feel like you slept for a week.  (You might want to check with me or your acupuncturist to find out your constitution and a better jook for your type.  There are lots and they can be super yummy :) )

How can you move it?

This is a great question and the first answer is exercise.  In whatever form makes you breathe a little harder.  That moves Qi.

Next:  Work on anger issues, frustration issues, sadness issues, guilt issues, grief issues…ok, this list is getting long…issues.  Emotions are the number one Qi stopper.  Make sure you are paying attention to and getting support for your emotions.  Talking to friends who will help you make clear choices and decisions.  Therapists who specialize in the more spiritual aspects of who we are….these are usually more Jungian.  Journaling!  Let me say that again….there is so much healing when you just let your mind and your hand have at a piece of paper!  Don’t filter.  Burn it if you don’t want anyone to see when you’re done and you’re worried about that.  (I do that sometimes.)

Try a pity party.  I have written about my pity parties in back newsletters.  Here is the short and dirty in 4 easy steps:

1)  Begin with a picture of something you love so much that just looking at it brings a smile to     your face, joy to your being, lightness to your life.

2)  Grab a timer and set it for 5 minutes.

3)  Give yourself 5 minutes to throw an all out tantrum.  Get it all out.  How horrible you are.  How horrible they are.  How horrible life is.  Get It Out!  Until your buzzer goes off that it’s been five minutes.

4)  Get up.  Wash your face and your hands.  Go back to that picture.  And feel the love.  Let it wash over you.  Let it fill those spaces that you just cleared.  Breathe and Smile and Be.  And then go about your day.  You have just really really shifted!  Good job!

Oh.  And of course.  Get Acupuncture.  Here at the Ayaffa Healing Space we LOVE giving you the space to balance your qi, find your qi, build your qi and move your qi!

And that, as they say, is that.